Strawberry Singh

Me, Myself and I Meme

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I am… so very shy.
I want… to be loved.
I have… a huge heart.
I wish… for understanding.
I hate… rudeness.
I fear… losing my grandmother.
I search… for peace of mind.
I wonder… what the future holds.
I regret… those ten years.
I never… want to be in the place where I was.
I always… want to make people laugh and feel loved.
I usually… am some degree anxious and often stick my foot in my mouth.
I dance… if I’ve been drinking.
I sing… very poorly but still enjoy doing it.
I often… wish that I had a second chance with someone.
I sometimes… want to travel the world.
I need… to take better care of my health.
I cry… during certain tv shows.
I should… go back to school.
I love… my friends and family.

I did a Strawberry Singh Meme, you can check out her post here: http://strawberrysingh.com/2015/03/24/me-myself-and-i-meme/ to learn more!

I’m wearing new pants from Addams at Uber, and hair from Little Bones at Uber. My shirt is from Foxes at N21, my jewelry is from Yummy, and my boots are from Reign. My skin is the Alice Skin from Glam Affair. My pose is from Slouch.

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Blame it on Sophia Harlow

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Today on plurk, my faux Second Life wifey Sophia Harlow dared me to take a picture of myself in a system skin and blog it.. so I am. I picked the Ruth skin.. I think it’s very vintage /slash/ burnt toast esq.

I put a few of my regular layers on and this lovely new hair from Magika (that she gifted me today) and here we go.. Ain’t I just beautiful?

I also did this picture for Strawberry Singh’s newest Meme that you can read all about here: http://strawberrysingh.com/2015/01/05/second-life-yearbook-smile-challenge/ I sorta mad it into a quick little Yearbook photo. I was having a very bad face day that day!

The Sexual Meme

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Strawberry Singh did a “Sexual Meme” here: http://strawberrysingh.com/2014/03/10/the-sexual-meme/ and so did I! You can too! I feel that this is perfect for hump day.

Sexual Questions: (for RL and/or SL)

What is your sexual orientation or do you not like to label yourself? –
I consider myself Queer or Pansexual. I don’t really like the term “Lesbian” because I feel that is too limiting. I’ve dated Transgendered Female to Male people before and my friends in the Lesbian community surprisingly enough gave me a lot of flack for that. I’ve never been all the way with a guy but if I wanted to try it I still don’t want to limit myself with a label. I believe that you love who you love.

Name a physical attribute that you find attractive or sexy. – I love when people are smart, can keep up with me intellectually and doesn’t judge me for my eccentricities and can make me laugh. Laughter is so important. I tend to be most attracted to women with nice eyes and soft skin who are not typical standards of beauty and I like it when my partner is slightly taller sometimes and I’m not really into “skinny” but that stuff is much less important. The body is temporary.. I want to connect with someone’s soul.

Are you promiscuous, a prude or in between?
– I’m promiscuous when I have a partner (but only with the person I’m with). I’m very loyal but I’m also a bit of a freak I guess. (lol) I’m a bit of a prude at first and very respectful and kinda shy when I’m interested in someone but once the ice is broken I’m not anymore.

What turns you on? – Sarcasm, humor, someone that smells good, someone that shows me parts of themselves that no one else can see. Someone that’s not afraid to be gentle with me when I need it and rough when I need it as well. I like other switches – someone who can either be sexually dominant or submissive. I like voice sex sometimes, and I wont get into specifics but I like toys, and BDSM.

Are you dominant or submissive? –
I am mostly dominant but I do have a bit of a submissive side that is more hidden. I like being a top and I’m not as comfortable with being touched at first but the more I trust someone the more I’m willing to explore. I’m the kind of person that is willing to explore and give my partner (within limits) whatever they want – I’m usually pretty game.

Are you into sexual roleplay? – Yeah, I like it all. I like writing, and I can be very creative when it comes to this, I just don’t want to roleplay as anything against my limits. I’m surprised that this survey doesn’t ask what your limits are.

Which sexual position is your favorite? – With the right person I’m up for almost anything. But I do love it when I have a woman over my lap and I have complete access…

Do you have any fetishes? –
I do, yes. These are probably better discussed in person.

Have you or would you do porn, amateur or professional? – No I wouldn’t do porn but I have posed for erotic photos before in RL.

Do you consider yourself sexy? – I don’t know that I’m “sexy” but I can be very sexual. People have told me that I have an aura about me that draws them in..

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I am wearing the R2 outfit from Collabor88, which was perfect for this and keeping with the theme of “Back to business” I used this desk set from the Loft in the background along with the Barnesworth Anubis 5th Avenue skybox which you can get at Collabor88 as well. My hair is also available at Collabor88 from D!va.

The pose is from Rack Poses, Adult.

Strawberry Singh’s Intriguing Questions Meme

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Meme instructions: Copy and paste the following questions and answers into your post. Delete my answers and input your own. Don’t forget to leave a comment in this post!
View Berry’s post here: http://strawberrysingh.com/2013/07/15/intriguing-questions-meme/

How do you deal with criticism?

In either life I am way too sensitive. I’m working on it though, or trying to. I can get really emotional if I am doing my best for someone and no matter what they cannot be pleased because really I’m a people-pleaser. If it’s presented in a constructive way though I tend to deal with it better but if it’s given to me by someone I really admire then it’s a bit harder.

What’s the most infuriating thing other SL residents do?
I think the people that go out of their way to hurt people that don’t deserve it. The Secrets on Sunday are for the most part stupid, viscous and unnecessary. I kinda wish they would just not publish them anymore because people don’t play nice and I mean sure I look at them but if they were not there anymore people would get over it/forget about it I think. By keeping them there it enables a platform for hate, and sad but try that is what the majority use the secrets for.

Which SL resident would you most like to have lunch with and why?
I don’t know – There are people that I admire in SL but I’d have lunch with just about anyone that is awesome.

Who would you say is your “anti” role model? Not gonna name names but there are a few people that are on my hot list for this that I cannot stand. The list is getting smaller though and I’m just trying to let that all go though. The older I get the more that I see that I don’t have to get along with everyone and they don’t have to like me either.

What was something you used to enjoy, but was ruined for you? I would say the Secrets on Sunday. I think it had potential to be a creative/positive platform and do some good but people can’t have nice things.

What’s something you want to do that you’d be embarrassed to tell other people about? Sometimes I’d like to have a store but I really don’t know what I’d make.

What’s the oddest term of endearment you’ve ever used or that someone’s used for you? Lol maybe Honeybuns, but I dug it. Oh, I call my daughter Ryleigh – Princess Starfish, tator-tot Ry Ry Boo-Boo. I also call my other daughter Syleee a Bratinista.

Have you ever fallen in love with another SL resident? Yeah.

Describe a time/event in your slife that you’re nostalgic for. I miss Marleen Vaughan. It was so much fun when she was around and I first started blogging with her and all the good times that we had. She’s the best.

What’s something sweet you’d like someone to do for you? I’d be tickled if someone made something and named it after me, which my Ryleigh already has and you can see it here: http://petitebowtiquesl.wordpress.com/2013/06/28/romp-around-50l-friday-628/

Meet My Friend Challenge – Caelan Hancroft

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Ok, from the first moment that I saw this challenge my friend Cae first came to mind. She is someone that I make it a point every day to say hi too because we are long past that awkward stage of omg.. should I or shouldn’t I IM this person? I just feel so comfortable with Cae, I can tell her anything and not be judged for it. She is one of my constants here.

She is a very kind and accepting person and I just always have felt really comfy with her which is a treasure in it self. Not only is she a brilliant creator of mesh jewelry at her store Cae she is also a blogger and a fabulous SL photographer all around this girl is fantastic and not only does she do all that she manages Gos/Gos Boutique and has contributed so many skins to the Skin Directory for the fantastic Gos Boutique shoes we all love.

She is an all around great person and friend to me and she goes out of her way for people on many occasions. There are many things that I admire about Caelan that I cannot put into words and tomorrow, July the 3rd is her birthday so this makes the “Meet My Friend Challenge” from Strawberry Singh even more extra special.

Meme Instructions: Pick a friend, any friend, (male or female) take a couple of pictures of (or with) them and ask them a series of questions for a fun and lively post.

Ok, this is where I asked her my own questions!

How long have you been in SL?

– It’ll be six years in December

What would you consider your style of clothing in SL?
– Simple and casual. I used to love dressing up but I haven’t done it in so long it takes me forever!


One item in SL that you could never do without?

– Just one? You’re going to laugh because this is a “me” answer, but I am in love with the inventory boxes I use for storing stuff. Boring, but it keeps me (and my junk) organized.


What do you do in SL?

– Aside from stand on a platform? I create mesh jewelry for my store, manage Gos Boutique, and do the occasional picture or blog post.

What is the craziest thing that you’ve ever done in SL?
– I haven’t really done anything crazy, but at times, I think the craziest thing was to stay.

Did you wear bling back in the day?
– I’m sure I did, but I don’t remember exactly. I probably repressed that memory. I definitely was guilty of wearing full-bright jewelry and clicky shoes.

Do you have a most regrettable SL fashion choice?
– There have been quite a few of them. Most have involved a fluffy ball gown or a review copy that I felt obligated to blog.


What do you think is the best part about SL?

– People here are so freaking creative! We all kind of take it for granted, but everything from the chair you’re sitting on, the shoes you’re walking in, your hair and skin… they’re all the product of someone’s creativity. This place hinges on that and it’s always amazed me.


What are five stores in SL that you’d recommend to a new player?

– Am I allowed to shamelessly plug my own store as one of the five? I kid. Narrowing it down to just five is really hard, but I would try to give a new person places to create a great av: Truth, Belleza, Maitreya, ColdLogic, and Gos.

If you had one piece of advice to offer a new player what would you say to them?
– Keep things fun and don’t get drawn into other people’s drama. We’re all guilty of it, but there’s nothing that sucks the fun out of this place more than that.


What was your first impression about me?

– My first impression of you was as a SLuicide Girl which prolly makes for a rather interesting first impression lol. I just remember thinking that you wrote really well and seemed like an interesting person. I didn’t meet you for real until a couple months after that, but I’m really happy that I did.

Hair – Wasabi Pills, Tanya, Chocolate
Skin – Glam Affair, Summer, Jamaica
Eyes – Ikon, Ascension Eyes, Glass
Top – ColdLogic, Shultz Top, Cream
Jewelry – Cae

Things That I enjoyed over the weekend – The Cosmetics Fair

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Ah, Cosmetics Fair and new Truth hair how you made me happy!

Glam Affair really out did themselves for this event. Those lips! That eyeliner for Cleo made me an incredibly happy girl! There is a ton of great make up here but that was my favorite. This event runs until the 30th.. and if you need to spruce up your skin this is the perfect place!

Truth also released this Colbie hair this weekend and yes a photo was born. I got the inspiration to do this photo and try to follow some of the tutorials from Strawberry Singh, here: http://strawberrysingh.com/2013/06/15/tutorial-processing-a-headshot/ I will probably watch the video a few times, but isn’t she amazing?

My eyes are the Ascension eyes from Ikon that I picked up at Numberology which just ended but I’m sure Ikon will have this in his store quickly! This newer jewelry set from Mandala rocks my socks too! Have an amazing Monday!

Strawberry Singh’s – A Second Life Haiku Meme

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Happiness surrounds,
Syleee, Imani, and me.
Our family rules!

That is such a fun little meme, and really I could write haiku’s anytime. Thank you Strawberry Singh, for thinking of cute and fun Meme’s every week, I really do look forward to them.

I chose to use a photo that I snapped last night because I feel that it best represents my SL right now, and I’d rather live in the moment! These last few months for me have been great, and I’ve loved adding my Imani to our family. She is so precious and sweet, and my Syleee is so funny and amazing. They both bring my world joy!

The pose that I used for this photo is from .click, and I think that they make really adorable poses. I just wish that some of the pose places made poses for a regular sized child, a regular sized adult and a toddleedoo, I can adjust them and stuff but if I had a wish list for poses that would be near the top!

Anyhow, check out Strawberry Singh’s Meme here: http://strawberrysingh.com/2013/05/05/my-second-life-haiku-meme/

Berry’s Procrastination Meme

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So Miss Strawberry Singh issued another Meme Challenge and this time its about procrastination and SL and some thought provoking questions she has asked. I answered them as follows and my credits are down below.

What is the rez date for your current SL Avatar that you use most often?
Sylvia Olivier – Dec. 19th 2006

Where was the first place you made friends as a newb and got to know people in Second Life? It took me awhile to find my place in SL, the first place I really went to check out was a sex club called Sumo’s lol. When I joined SL I was really curious about how people had sex here and thought it would be more like the Sims. Then a few months later I found the Dakota Estates Park.. where they did trivia and parties, I also had my first job there and it was pretty much a PG place and it really helped show me how cool SL can be.

Where do you spend most of your SL time now? Bella Paradiso in my skybox.

Who is your closest friend in Second Life? (only pick one) I can’t pick one.

What is the most favorite thing in your inventory? (only pick one) Hard to pick one thing but I love the Jewelry that my dear friend Caelan Hancroft makes, and my animal spice rack from the first arcade gacha.

The last thing you purchased in Second Life?
The Ikon eyes that I’m wearing from the Liaison Collaborative.

What color clothing does your avatar wear most often? Black, white or pink.

Do you prefer to walk, run or fly? I usually walk.

What is the craziest thing you’ve ever done in SL? When I was a noob, and I do mean noob I was a “pet” to a lesbian vampire and her submissive. It was interesting and really strange. Oh, and about three years ago I Co-owned a small D/s club.

Who would you like to play YOU, in the movie of your SLife? Christina Ricci.

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Parasol and Poses: Picture this at the Liaison Collaborative.
Shoes: Lolita in white by Gos Boutique @ The Liaison Collaborative
Jewelry: Sakura by Cae @ The Liaison Collaborative.
Headband: Noodles @ The Liaison Collaborative

Hair: Truth in Hollana
Outfit by Tee*fy at Collabor88

Location: It starts with a smile – Kaelyn Alecto’s Sim @ Onyx Isle

What’s your digits? Take Two.

It’s interesting.. how much my look and shape and SL has changed in a year. Strawberry Singh has yet again posed the question: What are your digits? So here again I have disclosed mine and I can’t help but to laugh at my comparison from last year and how much my avatar has changed through the revolution of mesh.

http://strawberrysingh.com/2011/04/12/whats-your-digits/
Tada.. I think it’s terribly interesting. Check it out! DOOO IIIT!

Anyhow, I’m wearing lots of Zaara lingerie and jewelry. Slink Mesh Feet. Dela Mesh Hair and Glam Affair Leah Skin 01.